• thisoldapt:


    Minus the Travelocity gnome. 

    Or with more gnomes. Whichever… ;)

  • if I have to go to work….

    September 29 – 37 Notes
    #trans style
    #trans fashion
    #queer style
    #queer fashion
    #trans* style
    #trans* fashion
    #ftm style
    #ftm fashion
    #gay style
    #gay fashion
    #masculine of center
    #dapper queer
    #qwear fashion
  • qwear:

    Lots of amazing things have been happening in the wonderful world of queer and nonbinary fashion! Here’s a recap. Stories from dapperQ, Brad and Angelina, Bindle & Keep, and Kipper Clothiers.

  • Franz Kafka, Diaries (via whyallcaps)

    (via recoveringsouthernbelle)

  • "Then open yourself. Let the human person come forth. Breathe in the air and the silence."
  • I'm FAAB, genderqueer, and lesbian identified, and I'm sorry you've been getting so much flack from your own community. You do you. Just keep it kind, compassionate, and fabulous and I'll be happy to call you a brother-queer. Sending good thoughts for a fucking amazing hair day tomorrow. Stay handsome.


  • m.v., you can love my skin and hate the scars i put on it. (via findingwordsforthoughts)
  • "i don’t want you
    to love me
    for my flaws,
    i want you
    to love me enough,
    to demand
    that i grow."
  • i used to really like you and your style.. but lately it looks like you're into ftm process and that kind of shitty things. and you know it's disappointing see beautiful and smart lesbians becoming "men". i dont want to offend you but it's the same misogynistic and homophobic shit again and again

    publishing this 1) to give folks an idea of the messages people continually send me, and 2) because it’s the only publishable message i’ve received in a while. this message is (obviously) tame as hell, but it’s just the cherry on top of the ice cream sunday that is transphobia.

    #transfatigue #cansomeonegoIN

    #transphobia #basiclesbiansugh #butreally #getyourshittogether
  • "I’m tired of talking about feminism to men.

    I’m tired of explaining to men that the feminist movement will, in fact, benefit them as well as women. I’m tired of trying to hawk gender equality like I’m some kind of car salesman showing off a shiny new sedan, explaining all of its bells and whistles. I’m tired of smiling through a thousand thoughtless microaggressions, tired of providing countless pieces of evidence, tired of being questioned on every. Single. Damn. Thing.I’m tired of proving that microaggressions exist, tired of proving that I’m unfairly questioned and asked for proof. For a movement that’s centered around the advancement and empowerment of women, why do I feel like I’m supposed to spend so damn much of my time carefully considering how what I say and do will be taken by men?

    I’m tired of men who insert themselves into feminist spaces with claims of hurt feelings. I’m tired of men who somehow manage to make every issue about them. I’m tired of men like the one who recently stopped by a friend’s Facebook thread in order to call feminism “c*nty”, then lecture the women involved for being too “hostile” in their responses to him. I’m tired of men telling me that my understanding of feminism and rape culture are wrong, as if these aren’t things that I have studied intensely. I’m tired of men who claim to be feminist allies, then abuse that position to their own advantage. I’m so fucking exhausted by the fact that I know that I will have to, at some point in this piece, mention that I understand that not all men are like that. I will have to note that some men are good allies. And all of those things are true! And all of you good allies get cookies! But honestly,I’m tired of handing out cookies to people just because they’re decent fucking human beings."